—“Evidence seems to suggest that children with single mothers grow up to be a menace whereas children with single fathers grow up just fine.”—Alba Rising

Um… that’s not the case.

It’s that single mothers are at much higher risk of unstable environments and higher risk of insecure (guilty) mother’s psychology affecting children negatively than single fathers for the simple reason that single fathers are more likely to cohabitate and produce a healthier environment lacking guilt, instability, and insecurity.

Or conversely, that single mothers try too hard to control and influence their children at the expense of fathers who are high maintenance but produce healthier children even by dedicating far less attention to them.

The fact single mothers produce the majority of problem adults doesn’t equal that the majority of single mothers produce problem adults.

In other words, TWO PARENTS ARE BETTER THAN ONE.

I thought I got this across but apparently not…..

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