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UM. THE GENDERS CANNOT TAKE EACH OTHER’S VENTING SERIOUSLY
–“I can’t understand men who talk about … putting women back in the kitchen, out of the workforce, or referring to of r_pe during a war. …”— A Female Friend
That’s because you aren’t a man. Just like I am not a woman and can’t imagine that they’re serious rather than hyperbolic (LARPing).
I have overheard far too many conversations of women talking about their husbands as mere monetary and physical resources to be exploited, and the stupidity of men and how women would do such and such better, and how they need female ‘unity’. I am also aware that women are over-privileged compared to men in everything from moral intuitions, to daily life, to health care, to political processes. These things are simply empirical. But they do not change the opinions of women on their relative status.
Naxalt(defense of child) is to some degree a defense against male hyperbole(defense of tribe).
This is why it is so hard for males and females to communicate at any scale. This is why men and women cannot work in or debate politics together except under the most optimum of circumstances.
Hyperbole (exaggeration) of offense, and NAXALT (exaggeration) of defense.
Defending children vs Exciting men.
These cognitive differences are real, universal, and inescapable.
If men wanted to oppress women they would do so. They do not do so because those women are their wives, daughters, sisters and mothers.
But if men agree to do something, there is nothing that can stop them. Because in the end, the use of violence determines all political conflict. And political competition is simply a means of circumventing political violence within the limits of provoking political violence.
Western men treat their women better than all other people’s combined. And under majority democracy it has come at the cost of inequality of outcomes for those men. Hence why I recommend houses for the genders, if there is to be a democratic government of any kind: so that we limit each other.